Proposing to your partner is such a huge moment, right? It’s one of those once-in-a-lifetime things, and you want this proposal to be absolutely perfect. But believe me, there are some common mistakes people make that can really mess things up. So, here are seven mistakes you absolutely want to avoid when planning your proposal:
1. Keep it Secret
I know, it’s so tempting to share your excitement, but trust me, keep it to yourself. Even the most trustworthy people, like family or friends, can accidentally slip up. If your partner finds out beforehand, the surprise is ruined and for some, it’s crucial to have this as a surprise. Just imagine how they’d feel knowing others knew about the engagement before they did. Not so great. So, keep it in secret—it’ll be worth it.
2. Don’t Act Suspicious
I get it, you’re nervous, but if you start acting weird, your partner is going to pick up on it. Your partner knows you from tip to toe, am I right?! If you’re overly anxious or texting constantly, it might give away your plans. Just take a deep breath, stay calm, and act like your usual self. Confidence is everything here.
3. Get a Photographer to capture the Proposal
You’ll want to remember this moment forever, and let’s face it, memories fade, but pictures do not. A professional photographer can discreetly capture the moment without you having to stress. Plus, they’ll make sure the lighting and angles are just right, and trust me, it’s worth it.
4. Skip the Public Proposal
Sure, proposing in front of a crowd might seem romantic, but not everyone loves the attention. Your partner might prefer a private, intimate moment. You know better what your partner prefers. Pick a spot that’s meaningful to both of you, like where you had your first date or a favorite quiet place. It’ll feel so much more special.
5. Prepare What You are going to Say
When the moment comes, emotions can overwhelm you, and you might forget what you wanted to say. Take some time to think about why you love your partner and what makes them so special to you. Even if you go blank and just say something simple, that’s okay—just speak from the heart.
6. Hide the Ring Box Better
Okay, those traditional ring boxes? They’re bulky and kind of obvious to spot. If it’s sticking out of your pocket, the surprise could be ruined. Cause your partner can figure out that it is. Look for a slim ring box or come up with a creative way to keep it hidden. Pro tip: jackets or bags can be lifesavers here.
7. Avoid Risky Spots
This one’s big—don’t propose near the water or in other locations, as it might ruin everything. You don’t want to be the person who drops the ring into the water or loses it in the grass. Pick a safe, secure spot, and maybe, even practice opening the ring box beforehand. Better safe than sorry, right?
Proposing is such a personal and unforgettable moment. If you avoid these mistakes, you’re setting yourself up for a proposal that’ll be just as perfect as your love story. And hey, if you need help with planning or photography, send us a message and we will make sure your proposal is perfect.
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